Hello!
Welcome, newcomer. My name is Effy Blue - it's a pleasure to meet you! How did you find me? Whether through an article, a friend, or a late night Google search, I am glad you are here. You have questions, I have answers. Non-monogamy can seem like a vast sea of options that is difficult and complicated to navigate. Click here to look at the diagram of all kinds of relationship structures.
Can you find where you fit?
Finding your preferred relationship design is exciting but can seem like a daunting task at first. Confused about where to start? You're in the right place.
- You made it this far. Well done starting your exploration!
The fun is just beginning...
- Find out if you have a good disposition for open relationships by taking our simple test. It will guide you through the basic building blocks of alternative relationships, will giving you action points at the end tailored to your result. It's a nifty tool!
- Come out and meet us! We welcome newcomers at all of our events - we're called Curious Foxes, after all! Attend one of our socials or workshops. They are the perfect place to dip your toes while meeting like-minded people - other newbies or the pros!
- Read some of my favorite blog posts.
- Need some personalized advice? Book a free mutual assessment call (MAC) to discuss your situation and whether coaching is a good fit for you.
- Read more of the literature focused on ethical non-monogamy. You can find a great selection of books and articles on our Resources List, curated just for you.
- Look into coaching to explore new territory or strengthen an already thriving relationship.
- Watch videos on my YouTube channel, hand picked and updated regularly.
- Build tools in communication, sexual exploration, emotion management, and more. These tools are original products exclusively available here. Enjoy!
- Join the mailing list. You'll get exclusive resources, invitations to events, and Fox Notes - the write-up of our popular monthly Curious Fox Social.
- Join the secret Facebook group for Curious Foxes by messaging me at my page.