Are open relationships right for you?Do you have a good disposition for open relationships? There is only one person who can answer that question - you! This is the time to be honest with yourself. Look over your shoulder; no one's watching. Your answers and results will be for your eyes only. This is between you and the internet. This is a tool for you to learn about yourself, where you currently stand, and action points you can take to further your exploration. May the force be with you!You're a natural!You are equipped with a healthy mindset to explore open relationships. Your open-minded attitude will help you approach new situations with curiosity. Your exploration might lead you to unexpected places but you are ready to face challenges with confidence that is coupled with humility and awareness. You might even know you are naturally oriented toward open relationships, but there are always points to consider about practical applications. Here are some points of action to guide your exploration:1. Hone your communication. Practice your elevator speech for your ideal relationship structure in 3 minutes or less. You know who you are and what you are looking for - can you convey that in a representative, concise message? 2. Examine your lifestyle.Articulate your top needs and requirements for new partners. Figure out if you have the physical resources to welcome new partners. Do you have time? Do you have energy? Are your other relationship(s) stable? You may have a natural disposition to open relationships but it’s important to lend equal scrutiny to your lifestyle as well. 3. Know yourself.Understand your regular habits and expectations that you need to communicate to new partners. When someone is deciding whether they want to participate in your relationship structure, are you giving them an accurate image of what that entails?Note: for a limited time, we are offering an online recording of our successful day conference CONSIDER THIS, which was created to help you "know thyself." Check it out here.----------------------------------If you want support on this endeavor, sign up for free 20 minute mutual assessment call for personal non-monogamy coaching with Effy Blue.This quiz was adapted from a Lelo article by Dr. Zhana, a sex researcher who leads The Casual Sex project. Learn more at her website.You're on your way.You have a contagious enthusiasm and you have the basics down. You still need to fine tune the tools and get more experience under your belt. But with your attitude, you will master the skills without much difficulty. The experience and tools will help inform your own customized relationship structure. The vast frontier of open relationships lies before you - get exploring!Here are some points of action to guide your exploration:1. Learn.Think about the unlimited options for relationship structures. What excites you? One primary romantic partner and other partners for physical exploration? Three or more people dating each other? Multiple physically and emotionally intimate connections to varying degrees of seriousness? Absorb the vast array of resources. Read up on the relevant literature and binge on YouTube videos. Try different modes of learning to figure out what speaks to you.2. Connect.Attend events that are specially catered to the non-monogamous demographic. Seek community support and have conversations about your journey. Get your questions answered - how did they discover open relationships? What worked for them, and what didn’t? This is your opportunity to learn from seasoned veterans and fellow newbies alike. 3. Try something new.Dip your toes in the water. Or, if you are feeling daring, you can really push the outer walls of your comfort zone, whatever that may look like. Go on a date with someone in an established open relationship: solo or as a couple, romantic or sexual in nature. Anything outside of the monogamous structure. How did that feel? Process the good, bad, and the ugly (if applicable, with your partner). Develop your language for this kind of evaluation. You’ve figured out how to engage in the experience. Now you can build tools to fine tune it and make it even better.Note: for a limited time, we are offering an online recording of our successful day conference CONSIDER THIS, which was created to help you "know thyself." Check it out here.----------------------------------If you want support on this endeavor, sign up for free 20 minute mutual assessment call for personal non-monogamy coaching with Effy Blue.This quiz was adapted from a Lelo article by Dr. Zhana, a sex researcher who leads The Casual Sex project. Learn more at her website.You have work ahead of you.Open relationships have piqued your interest but you need to build a solid foundation before deeper exploration. You need a strong, stable relationship, a support system, a mental and emotional toolkit, and, most importantly, healthy curiosity. Challenge yourself not to look at these elements as ingredients on a grocery list. There is no time limit here except the one you impose on yourself. Here are some points of action to guide your exploration:1. Introspect.Figure out the areas of open relationships you are currently struggling with. Do you have a naturally jealous disposition? Is your current relationship too unstable to pose additional challenges? Are you lacking in tools for transparent communication? Be honest with yourself, and embrace your fears and weaknesses as opportunities to grow.2. Dive deeper.Think about the unlimited options for relationship structures. What excites you? One primary romantic partner and other partners for physical exploration? Three or more people dating each other? Multiple physically and emotionally intimate connections to varying degrees of seriousness? Absorb the vast array of resources to address the challenges that face you. Read up on the relevant literature and binge on YouTube videos. Try different modes of learning to figure out what speaks to you.3. Find your words.Keep communication lines open with your partner(s) or prospective partner(s). Transparency is key, and the abilities to listen authentically to others and process your emotional landscape are crucial to establish before taking bigger steps.Note: for a limited time, we are offering an online recording of our successful day conference CONSIDER THIS, which was created to help you "know thyself." Check it out here.----------------------------------If you want support on this endeavor, sign up for free 20 minute mutual assessment call for personal non-monogamy coaching with Effy Blue.This quiz was adapted from a Lelo article by Dr. Zhana, a sex researcher who leads The Casual Sex project. Learn more at her website.This might not be for you.You are on a journey of discovery, and taking this quiz was the first step. The journey is fueled by curiosity and a healthy open minded attitude that is receptive to feedback. Just as monogamy is not for everyone, neither is the alternative. Open relationships and their unique set of challenges might not fit into your ideal relationship style and personality. Nothing is impossible, but is it worth the effort? And while open relationships may be very flexible, that does not mean monogamy is stagnant. You can use common tools present in open relationships to strengthen your current relationship, including its communication, novelty, and connection. Here are some points of action to guide your exploration:1. Introspect and find your words.Reflect on why open relationships are not for you. What does this convey about your preferred structure, values, and needs? Practice how to communicate that to your current or future monogamous partner.2. Invest in your friendships.Understand how you can get your emotional, mental, and physical needs met by people other than your monogamous partner. Emotional needs, non-sexual intimacy, and mental stimulation can be fulfilled by your friends and chosen family.3. Explore your sexuality.Use the communication tools commonly employed in open relationship structures to spice up your sex life. What do you like? What don't you like? What do you want to explore? Be curious about yourself and your partner. You are on a journey of discovery - and that journey is FUN! Note: for a limited time, we are offering an online recording of our successful day conference CONSIDER THIS, which was created to help you "know thyself." Check it out here.----------------------------------If you want support on this endeavor, sign up for free 20 minute mutual assessment call for personal non-monogamy coaching with Effy Blue.This quiz was adapted from a Lelo article by Dr. Zhana, a sex researcher who leads The Casual Sex project. Learn more at her website.How do you feel about the thought of multiple sexual and/or romantic partners at the same time, knowing all parties are informed and consenting?Which of these describe your current (or most recent) relationship?When you're in a relationship, how often do you prefer to have relationship conversations?How comfortable are you having conversations with a new or potential partner about sexual history and STI screens?Imagine a current or future partner says they are excited for a date coming up with someone new. How do you feel about it?How closely does the following resonate with you in romantic relationships? “I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me as much as I care about them. I need a lot of reassurance that I’m loved by my partner.”Imagine you and your best friend have a long standing catch-up date every week. They ask to change it to every other week during the same slot out of the blue. How do you feel?If you decide to explore open relationships, do you know of a few people to support you?Imagine you and a current or future partner require each other's approval for large purchases. You interpret this as purchases over $500. Your partner buys a $800 TV for the house, thinking a large purchase is over $1000. When they tell you this, how do you feel?We all get down sometimes. How do you deal with negative emotions? (e.g. fear, jealousy, insecurity, anger, disappointment)Almost done! What is your gender? Quiz Maker - powered by Riddle