CURIOUS ABOUT SEX PARTIES?
Besides being FUN, sex parties are the perfect place to explore your sexuality, meet like-minded people, and be immersed in consent culture. But they can be tricky to navigate. Now you can learn from the pros.
In this book, I address all the questions dancing in your head:
Get started on this life-changing journey today!
Play Party Etiquette - The Workshop
Find out about future live workshops hosted by Effy Blue, the sex party expert featured in the New York Post.
WHAT DO OTHERS HAVE TO SAY?
"Effy is a great resource... I am grateful to learn that it is all about consent, respect & communication. It inspired me to sign up for my first play party the next day."
BOOK CONTENT & EXTRAS
TYPES OF PARTIES
Types? Plural? You got it - there are as many types of sex parties as there are parties! I've summed it up in several ways to help you find the best one(s) for you. With this guide, you'll be able to navigate the underground play party scene like a pro!
PREPARATION
Going to a play party entails so much more than just getting through the door. Did you... Pack your essentials? Prepare your safer sex speech? Go through the mental exercises? Bring the right clothes? If you don't know where to start, I've got you covered.
COMMUNICATION
I've developed a special introspection tool to hone your communication skills with your date - or just for yourself! It's called B.I.D.: Boundaries, Intentions, and Desires. In the book I go over how this tool can improve your experience before, during, and after the party!
A+ CONSENT GAME
One of the best things about sex parties is that they practice consent culture. However, this isn't something we are taught in the mainstream world, so it takes practice! I offer lots of tips as well as step-by-step processes of consent conversations.
HEALTHY TIPS
Did you know you should never brush your teeth before a play party? There are lots of things we have to keep in mind to minimize the risk of STIs and honor individual risk tolerances. In the book, I give you some insider tips that will impress the regular party-goers.
WORKSHEETS
In addition to the BID worksheet, I also have a thorough checklist, consent flowcharts, and a post-party tool. This exclusive content can't be found anywhere else! After reading the book and completing the exercises, you'll feel confident and ready for a fun time!
CHECK OUT EFFY'S SEXY GO-BAG!
Wondering what to bring to a sex party? Looking for high-quality items to spice things up in the bedroom? I can help with that. I partnered with Shag, a sexy shop in Brooklyn, to bring you my sexy go-bag filled with hand-picked, quality items:
- Massage oil
- Massage candle
- Surgical marker
- Variety of condoms
- Dental dams
- Intimate wipes
With the purchase of Effy's Sexy Go-Bag, you get
a FREE copy of the Play Party Etiquette Book and
a FREE first replenishment pack. Score!
YOUR CHANCE TO BECOME A PLAY PARTY PRO.
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