Hi! I’m Effy Blue, a relationship coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures. This could be anything off the beaten path. We are taught how to approach relationships in a certain way, defaulting to monogamy without questioning what we want and need. I’m here to help you deconstruct those default settings so you can craft your own Relationship by Design with agency, awareness, and creative thinking.

Coaching

Need support in designing your relationship? I offer private coaching in Brooklyn, including video calls. Check out the many packages I offer.

Workshops

Interested in meeting and learning with like-minded people? Check out the events I run for a warm, accepting community of Curious Foxes.

Self-Study

Curious about this lifestyle? I have personally curated this list of resources that can aid you in your exploration. Let’s get curious!

Collaborate

I’ve collaborated on articles, interviews, conferences, merchandise, and more. Reach out to aloha at effyblue.com. Read about my projects!

ARE OPEN RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT FOR YOU?

Monogamy isn’t for everyone. There are infinite possibilities for alternative relationship structures, each one custom tailored. Not sure if it’s for you? I can help with that.

GET IN CONTACT

Ready to be supported in designing the relationship that’s right for you? Let’s get started!

For potential coaching clients, book your free 20 minute consultation today. For other inquiries, send an email to aloha at effyblue dot com.